{"id":377,"date":"2011-07-29T14:52:38","date_gmt":"2011-07-29T18:52:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ohe.5c7.myftpupload.com\/?p=377"},"modified":"2011-07-30T10:06:18","modified_gmt":"2011-07-30T14:06:18","slug":"does-she-or-doesnt-she","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/?p=377","title":{"rendered":"Does she or doesn&#8217;t she?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ohe.5c7.myftpupload.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/index-finger-t13494.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-378\" title=\"index-finger-t13494\" src=\"http:\/\/ohe.5c7.myftpupload.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/index-finger-t13494-170x170.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"170\" height=\"170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/index-finger-t13494-170x170.jpg 170w, https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/index-finger-t13494.jpg 283w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 170px) 100vw, 170px\" \/><\/a>Here&#8217;s a nifty little test of empathy, thanks to\u00a0 Northwestern social psychologist Adam Galinsky and friends. Ask your boss [or anyone, for that matter] to draw the letter E on her forehead. Before you read more, do it yourself. [Index fingers work as well as pens.]<\/p>\n<p>Now &#8230; which way did you draw the E: so it&#8217;s legible to you and backward to others, or legible to others and backward to you?<\/p>\n<p>According to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livescience.com\/1225-boss-clueless.html\">Galinsky<\/a> and crew, people who draw the E so it&#8217;s legible to others <!--more-->consider others&#8217; points of view&#8211;an empathic perspective&#8211;while those who draw so it&#8217;s legible to them haven&#8217;t thought about how others see it.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s more. In studying the connections between empathy and power, Galinsky and research colleagues found that when people have power, they&#8217;re more likely to draw the E from THEIR point of view, not someone else&#8217;s!<\/p>\n<p>Galinsky&#8217;s studies were done using students, but Dan Pink draws some great connections to leadership. &#8220;On the altar of action orientation and tough-mindedness,&#8221; says Pink, &#8221; we\u2019ve sacrificed the fundamentally human quality of empathy.&#8221; Read more <a href=\"http:\/\/www.danpink.com\/archives\/2011\/07\/a-30-second-test-to-determine-whether-your-boss-is-a-gem-or-a-jerk\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a nifty little test of empathy, thanks to\u00a0 Northwestern social psychologist Adam Galinsky and friends. Ask your boss [or anyone, for that matter] to draw the letter E on her forehead. Before you read more, do it yourself. [Index fingers work as well as pens.] Now &#8230; which way did you draw the E:&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-emotional-intelligence","category-leading"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=377"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/377\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":381,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/377\/revisions\/381"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inourrightmind.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}